by Nick
(Phoenix, AZ)
Please always enter a first name and location when posting. It DOES NOT have to be accurate. It just reads more naturally. So from now on, you are “Nick” from “Phoenix AZ” – I’m pulling that out of thin air – my apologies if it is actually true!
Is she real, sincere and honest? I have been corresponding with a Russian woman until few days ago through personal email.
It all started at Russian-Dating.com.
She has sent me over 40 pictures of herself and her family in the period of one month. She says she’s deeply in love with me.
When I asked her for her phone number and home address, she gave it to me. I called her and spoke to her 5 times to make sure she’s real. But when she asked me to pay for her expense to come to the US for a week and to be together, I did not pay.
I asked her over the phone if this is a “scam”, she responded telling about how her family values and morals and she’s not scamming me. All she wanted is to be with a “real man” to start a family. She’s worried that she may not have the opportunity because she’s almost 30 years old. She asked me again to pay for her visa and the round trip ticket, but when I said I won’t and that true love needs more time and that I am planning on visiting her some time in October of this year, she said she could not wait and it’s better if we meet in the US.
When I still would not pay. She decided to end our one month “relationship.” Is she real, sincere and honest?
Comments for Is she real, sincere and honest?
RE: Is she real, sincere and honest?
by: Tom (Site Owner)
No. She is not real, sincere, or honest. She’s 100% scam, 100% guaranteed.
1) She can’t just get a visa. It’s hit-or-miss, mostly miss for young, single women. She knows this.
2) NO real/sincere/honest Russian girl will ever be “deeply in love” purely from letters, pictures, and a few phone calls before a real meeting.
3) If she was real/sincere/honest she would be happy to see you in Russia in October.
I looked at that site, Russian-Dating.com. Frankly it looks a LOT like fdating.com, another free site. I’m guessing they are related. Maybe one is a re-brand of the other.
Either way, since it’s a free site there are two things that are sure:
1) The site itself isn’t orchestrating the scam as is nearly always the case with pay-per-letter sites.
2) Individual scammers will be there and you’ll need to be ready to weed them out.
Do other users a favor… Go to your girl’s profile and click the “Report Abuse” link. It will surely prompt you to enter some details, but it’s REAL SIMPLE: She asked for money, and that’s almost certainly a violation of the terms of use.
Glad I checked
by: Nick
Thank you. I’m glad I check and wise enough to not send any money.